motivations

Failure  is the stepping stone to success, as long as you learn from it. Focus on the actions needed to be taken and fail fast so that you learn what not to do. Failure shows that you are trying, it is so easy to just remain in the ‘easy zone’ just getting by living life without taking any action, but that is not how we grow as individuals. 4 Reasons Why It’s Essential To Fail In Order To Succeed: # Failure helps you conquer the fear of future failure. # Failure makes us better. # Failure is how you discover what you really want. # Failure builds up the strength in you.

A gentleman was walking through an elephant camp, and he spotted that the elephants weren’t being kept in cages. All that was  holding them back   from escaping the camp, was a small piece of rope tied to one of their legs. He was completely confused as to why the elephants didn’t just use their strength to break the rope and escape the camp. Curious and wanting to know the answer, he asked a trainer nearby why the elephants were just standing there and never tried to escape. The trainer replied; “ when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”

ANU KUMARI : UPSC TOPPER  Mother of a four year old, Anu Kumari of Haryana's Sonipat district got the second rank by balancing her demanding household work with sheer hard work required for the preparation for the entrance examination. She had studied Physics from Delhi University and did an MBA from IMT Nagpur. She did not take any coaching classes. Thirty-one-year-old Anu is married to a businessman.She quit her Gurgaon job two years ago to focus on her bid to attempt the civil services examination.She wants to join IAS to change the life of women.

The selection is obviously based on the (OLQs)officer like qualities. Hence, you must not resort to traditional coaching for SSB. What you require is proper training to hone your qualities as a leader and understand your strengths and weaknesses. What we need to do immediately? 1.  Start reading English News papers and good magazines like India Today, The Hindu etc  regularly. Read the editorial pages seriously. 2. Simultaneously make a habit of learning new world everyday, it will improve your vocabulary. 3.  Write Diary daily in English and formulate your thoughts converting them into English sentences. 4. Improve your General Knowledge by means of  T.v, Internet or Social media.  # If you have passion and fire in your belly then you are a sure short winner.